You may also like to read Sex, Life & Frilly Bits: For the Person who has Everything, the blog of the wonderful woman who edits Lucrezia Magazine and who Twitters as @chaosnoir.

Sounds like this book will sit handsomely on my shelf next to Easton & Liszt’s The Ethical Slut: another fine read that completely blows apart the utter myth that pornography and polyamorous sex have no place in a mature, responsible and loving relationship… or, indeed, society as a whole.

When was the last time we had a clear month without some purse-lipped, reactionary dullard (yes, Tracee Hutchison, that includes you) insisting that anyone who enjoys pornography is automatically a signatory to misogyny and female degradation?

Such wooden imagination.

It’s painfully obvious that vanilla ideologues like these cannot or will not fathom the heady thrill of exploring their own repressed dom/sub fantasies in a safe environment… if, indeed, they’ve ever had any. Meanwhile, perfectly normal, respectful citizens — including women, Tracee — flock to Sexpo and adult shops in their thousands to buy toys and fantasy smut which they then take home and privately enjoy, thank you very much. This heresy has been going on for decades; probably more. But we’re still waiting for civil society to fall apart at the seams.

There are far too many good men and women in this world, whose relationships are genuinely nourished and strengthened by a healthy dose of pornography, for that happiness to be denied and punished by the Porn Is Bad choristers.